Age of Independence ~

One of my daily readings is a book entitled "Jesus Calling", by Sarah Young. 

It is by far the best daily devotional book I have ever read. 

Today's is one I wanted others to read, it was such

an important lesson for me to learn in my own life.

If nothing ever went wrong, why would we

feel the need for God? 

Not one of us enjoys the difficult times in our life, yet it is in them

where we grow the most and realize there is so much we can't do 

 or handle in our own strength.... 

Enjoy the read, below is a portion of today's...

~

In this age of independence, people find it hard to 

acknowledge their neediness. However, I have taken you 

along a path that has highlighted your need for Me: placing

you in situations where your strengths were irrelevant and 

your weaknesses were glaringly evident.  Through the aridity

of those desert marches, I have drawn you closer and closer

to Myself.

You have discovered flowers of Peace blossoming in 

the most desolate places. You have learned to thank Me for 

hard times and difficult journeys, trusting that through them 

I accomplish My best work.  

You have realized that needing Me

is the key to knowing Me intimately, which is 

the

gift above all gifts.

                                                                            Sarah Young

this is what echos from my heart today.......

Activity and Attitude

As a follower of Christ, the spiritual fruit I bear can be developed in a couple of ways.

Activity, 

which is of course the things that I do and what I accomplish for God.

It's good to do,

but we shouldn't put too much stock in trusting that alone.

Attitude,

is a far better indicator of what is happening in our spiritual life.

The proper attitudes, the influence of His love, joy, peace, patience,

kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness 

and self-control.

How we act on the inside,

our inward attitude eventually will start to have and affect

on our outward behavior.

In changing our inward attitudes,

(changing how we think and live)

something can't help but change in our behavior.

In allowing the Holy Spirit to work in our lives,

getting focused on growing in God's Word,
that's when

we will begin to notice changes in 

how we think and what we chose to do.

What's happening in our hearts is the fruits of the Spirit seeping outward.

It's what truly shows others what it is that sets us apart as different in this world.

It's a challenge to succeed daily,

 we are facing a constant battle with outside influences.

The goal is to be listening to God's direction and applying His Word to our lives.

By doing so

we will grow and mature,

which will change

our actions and our attitudes.

What is setting you apart from the rest of the world?

I challenge you to find the area you are weakest in

and

study all you can find

on that one topic.

If you lack self control, 

look up all you can find in your Bible on self control

and so on with whatever other area you
need work on.

One of my favorite reminders of how I live my life 

is,

Am I able to share God without saying a word?

This is what Echos from my heart today ~

Baby its Cold Outside ~

Because it's Cold Outside

and 

because she's so 

darn 

cute !

Hoping you and yours are warm and toasty.....

She is what echos from my heart today :-)

The Outcome ~

I sat to read my morning devotional 

only to realize I had jumped ahead 

and read the wrong day.....

or 

did I?

The date on the page clearly read

Nov.19th....

Yet it's just what I needed to read,

It's just what some I love

needed to hear.

So, wrong day but right message.

I hope it's what you needed today.

Leave Outcomes Up Me

  

Follow Me

wherever I lead, without worrying about how it will all turn

out.

Think of your life as an adventure, with Me as your Guide

your Companion.

Live in the now, concentrating on staying in step with Me.

When your path leads to a cliff, 

be willing to climb it

with My help.

When you come to a resting  place, 

take time to be refreshed in 

My Presence.

Enjoy the rhythm of life lived close to 

Me.

You already know the ultimate destination of your journey:

your entrance into heaven.

So keep your focus on the path just before you, 

leaving outcomes up to 

Me

     By Sarah Young

This is what echos from my heart today...........

Finding My Identity ~

 

As a older mature woman I take a look over my shoulder at who I used to be.

I realize in doing so that I didn't  find my true identity until I

let go of my

ego.

Scripture tells us in Mark 8:34 and 35

"If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross

and follow me"

For me, I was suffering an identity crisis when I was trying to live my life apart from God.
Ego
who I had to be ....to measure up.

But then again,

we are all born separated from God

If we are separated from Him we really don't know our true selves.

That however never stops us from trying to distinguish who we are daily...

it in fact begins to be a controlling

 factor our lives.

God wants us to find out who we are in Him. To find our fulfillment in Him.

Trouble is most are convinced that  fulfillment can be found in
relationships, the perfect body, worldly success, money and stuff!

None of which make us who we are....

When we come to know God, we are saying good bye to our old self,

and that

is where and when we begin to find
our true identity,

in Him.

Once realized...

I  knew I needed to be serving Him, be it in my church and/ or my community.
To do a work that God could do on His own if he wanted to...
Better
for us to do so and to then give the glory to Him.
It's Him I represent.

In my opinion serving God and or leading others isn't about exceptional skill,

is not about what Bible college one attended, 

or a position of authority one might hold.

It's putting aside our egos and allowing God to work through us. 

Where and how we serve is based on our gifts, where He wants us,

and all is to glorify Him,

not self.

The choices I now make speak volumes as to who I am.

Who I am and how I live my life,

all realized only through my relationship with Him.

That being said,

I'm not passive about my faith.

I stand up for what is right not necessarily popular.

Also known as calling it as I see it....

I will not pass the buck or blame others for my wrongs. 

I do not put my self above another.

 I know for sure, I am far from perfect and I will never claim to be.

But I do know who I am.......

 I'm,

constantly fighting off the ego in order to be who 
I was intended to be.

This is what echos from my heart today.....

More onToo Much Buzyness ....

So I had a thought.
Are we really living life?

Are 

we living it fully?

People are so busy all the time.
It seems everyone is overloaded
with busyness.

The busy super Mom's.
The busy super Dad's.
The busy kids with their studies, sports and other activities.
It seems to me everyone is overload, exhausted !

Maybe we need to stop and take a good look, and honest look
at our too busy schedules.
It seems by the end of a day
or
the end of a week we become overwhelmed.
Overwhelmed at what didn't happen.
Overwhelmed at what fell through the cracks.

Does this sound like living fully to you!
Have you jumped on the hamster wheel and now unsure how to make it stop!

Buzyness became a big issue for thought.
Trying to schedule get togethers with friends for meaningful conversation.
For a nice lunch or dinner.
Meet for coffee and catch up....sorry no time....

It seems in the scheduling or should I say in the attempt...
it more times than not starts with how about Monday...
no that doesn't work for me how about Tuesday....
nope I'm booked that day...
Before I know it we are in to next week or next month.
REALLY?

It just seems like we are missing so much...
 while doing so too much.

Don't get me wrong busy isn't always bad, each of us have responsiblities.
Providing for our families, serving in our community and or church.
It seems we maybe need to look at making sure what we are doing isn't causing
us to miss the important things.


Overcommitment can damage relationships with our families, friends and God.
People around you can and likely are affected by what can appear to be a
lack of interest.....it's up to each
of us to pursue the relationships in our lives and nourish them.

Met up with my friend Rene after close to twenty years !

The person controlling our busy schedules is,
Us!
FYI
Busyness doesn't necessarily equal more productive.....

Maybe we need to slow the pace....
For me it's about seeking direction from God.
It may be worth your efforts to consider changing up your schedules.
Imagine the frenzy of all your buzyness beingless frenzied....
the joy of relationships re established or made stronger.....

You may be relieved to be off the hamster wheel
and
at last, begin to live and love more fully.

It's just a thought......
this
is what echos from my heart today......

The Sacrifice was Worth it !

Ideally I always wanted to be home with and for my kids and I had many years 

that I was able to do so. 

This required  a lot of sacrifices.

We didn't go to fancy restaurants too often, we didn't go anywhere on vacations.

Instead we hung out at home, the beach, or a short weekend trip somewhere local.

We had lots of meals shared with neighbors, we played cards, Pictionary, Scrabble.

We had lots of neighbor hood barbecues and parties...

Instead of going to the movies we rented a movie made some popcorn 

piled on the couch in our pajamas and enjoyed the movie!

My son's didn't wear designer clothes and if they wanted the outrageously priced

Air Jordan basketball shoes,

they made up the difference of my shoe allotment and the cost of Mr. Jordan'$ shoes.

We bought them new bikes up until age 10 or so.
When they didn't take care of them.... well,

after that they bought their own and no surprise

took better care of the ones they paid for!

They didn't have phones of there own.

If they wanted the privilege of driving they had to pay for their own insurance.

This worked out well for me because I preferred they spend time playing the sports

they loved that took so much time, and focused on their grades.

I knew they would be working the rest of their lives so I wanted them to enjoy

their youth rather than working part time to pay for insurance.

Not to mention, I was very nervous with the thought of a 16 year old behind a wheel.

It was almost stress free by the time they started driving

........a little more maturity went a long way.

So were the sacrifices worth it?

They both have good jobs, good work ethic, and  take nice vacations.

I don't believe either to this day care about the label on an article of clothing.

They take care of what they work for.

They have great stories of different sports teams they were on.

Great stories of championship games, tournament victories and defeats.

They have memories of their childhood and youth.....

They learned good life skills from many of their coaches and teachers.

They are still very involved with the same group of friends since grade school.

They have told me they don't think they missed out on anything! 

They feel they had a very normal

childhood.

Still today they often request one of the meals I used to make.
Meals I made because they were 
  cheap
and
filling !!!

I'm thankful for the years I was able to be home with them....

thankful they don't live their lives as though anyone owes them anything.

They know how to get what they want, they know whats important in life.

They value the little things.....

I also remember having to go to work and leaving them.

It was a most difficult thing to do as a Mom,

yet I and every other Mom that's had to return to work has survived
the pain that comes with that separation.

I count my self very lucky that my Mom was their to love my son's like I would have

if I were home with them.  

After that a sweet older Grandma type watched them and loved them as a Grandma type would :-)

I was so lucky!

So what I know is this.

Rather you have to work or want to work outside the home.....

Your children can still learn what matters most.

It's what takes place as a family when your together.

It's the values you teach them,

even if it means they have to save for the bike, the car or Mr. Jordan'$ tenni$ $hoe$ !

I'm beginning to see how hard it is going to be for my daughter in law Katie to return to work and leave Khloe.  

It breaks my heart for her, I  so remember how hard it was myself......

....but I know she'll  be fine and so will little Khloe.

This little girl is so loved by so many....
.

There are a classroom full of children who need a teacher like Katie

and there aren't many like her!

She is the kind of teacher that has a big impact on a little one's life.

Many are children that likely don't experience a circle of love, attention and encouragement when at home.
For some, they have to go to school in order to receive what Khloe is surrounded by everyday.

We all have the opportunity to teach our children life lessons.

To raise them with the knowledge that the world owes them nothing

and just what is worthy of us placing a value on....

For me ~

God, family and love ....

This is what echos from my heart today.....

Too Busy ?

Maybe a snails pace is needed...time away from the "busy".

What are our busy lifestyles taking away from?

Our busyness can take away from many things,
like time alone with God.
A God who wants us to experience the freedom and the peace
that we get by  knowing Him intimately..

In order to get to know Him we have to spend time with Him.
Really no different than getting to
know anyone else.
A relationship doesn't grow if we don't put in the time it takes
to really know that person.

In order to experience God fully and hear His voice we can't be constantly busy.
Running errands, working, cleaning, children, church,
connecting with friends and extended family and the list goes on, right?

Can we turn off the phone, ignore the text, turn off the television
and
really spend sometime with Him?

It's easy to get wrapped up in the busy, volunteering more time than we have.
Time with God is the most important time we can spend.
Set a time that daily is just to focus on Him....do all you can to ensure
total peace and quiet....It doesn't have to be a long time...it just needs to happen.
Once the habit is created....you will find you want more time with Him!


Time with Him is how you can really experience Him,
and see what He can do in your life.
Reading the Bible (His Word) is where you learn about God's character.
Like anyone we spend time with
we want to discover their character right?

He will bless you in more ways than you can imagine.
Willing to take the time and see?

You have everything to gain!
This is what echos from my heart today......

I Found My Walking Buddy ~

My morning started as usual, coffee poured, to the office, read my devotionals and check e-mails.

Started really well when my blogging friend Sally fixed my blog so comments can again be made.

So thankful for Sally:-)

So after shutting down the computer, I decide to get my walk, housework and shower out of the way at the start of the day....I'm watching Khloe this afternoon and don't want anything to interfere with that time. 

Buy finishing what I have to do right off, I can enjoy my afternoon with her and I'm not stressed about rushing anything that didn't get done once the hubstir is home from work.  That's when I want to be available to him....even if we are just sitting in the same room.

So I happily force myself to get my shoes on and get out the door to walk. I'm determined to continue in my attempt getting in better shape.

Especially with the calorie SUPER SIZED holiday's coming our way!  

My excuse not to walk is usually I want a walking buddy and can't find one!

Turns out it's a very popular reason  excuse to get out of walking.

Today as I walked in the cool temps of November under a very blue,

sky dotted with several white puffy clouds, I took a moment.  

I took a moment to look around at the hills, sky, clouds, trees etc..

.....thinking how beautiful and incredible it all is. 

As I walked I wondered out loud,

"how can anyone think this all just appeared, an accident, an explosion, whatever, "

this took some thought. 

God thought it and spoke it in to existence, and it was perfect .

I started to pray as I walked and  before I knew it I was back home. 

I had found my new walking buddy!

Turns out, He was always walking along side of me,

I just had not taken the opportunity to dedicate that time,
as a time I could spend it with Him.

Now get walking! 

If you need a buddy I would be glad to introduce you to one :-)

This is what echos from my heart today

Help!

I'm receiving e-mails debifat@cox.net that many of you can't leave comments on my blog.

I have googled the problem and I'm not alone.  It has something to do with switching and or not switching to the new blogger style. I have done all it says to do and it is still not working.

If one of you is willing, please e-mail me step by step (for real....like your explaining to a 10 year old) what I need to do to correct this. It has become a beyond frustrating thing for me to try and fix :-(

Too old for this kind of thing....

Thanks to whomever can spare the time!!!

Hugs!

Slow Fade ~

 I heard this song this morning at church and the lyrics struck me as very powerful,

that is if one was paying attention. 

I'm one of those who not only loves the musical instruments and the voice,

  I lend a close ear to the lyrics. 

Listening to lyrics is something I did as a kid, and then as a parent I thought it was a good idea to pay attention to what my son's where lending their ears to.

The song is Slow Fade, by Casting Crowns. I hope to load the song onto the blog so you can hear it.  If not, I encourage you to Google it and take a listen.

"Slow Fade"

Be careful little eyes what you see

It's the second glance that ties your hands as darkness pulls the strings

Be careful little feet where you go

For it's the little feet behind you that are sure to follow

It's a slow fade when you give yourself away

It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray

Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid

When you give yourself away

People never crumble in a day

It's a slow fade, it's a slow fade

Be careful little ears what you hear

When flattery leads to compromise, the end is always near

Be careful little lips what you say

For empty words and promises lead broken hearts astray

It's a slow fade when you give yourself away

It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray

Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid

When you give yourself away

People never crumble in a day

The journey from your mind to your hands

Is shorter than you're thinking

Be careful if you think you stand

You just might be sinking

It's a slow fade when you give yourself away

It's a slow fade when black and white have turned to gray

Thoughts invade, choices are made, a price will be paid

When you give yourself away

People never crumble in a day

Daddies never crumble in a day

Families never crumble in a day

Oh be careful little eyes what see

Oh be careful little eyes what you see

For the Father up above is looking down in love

Oh be careful little eyes what you see

So, it really got me thinking about the truth of the lyrics. 

To me they speak of regret, mistakes and wrong choices
made in life.

They didn't happen in a day, but in many days of small choices that were made.

Compromise, when one should have thought better of it.

Never intentional.

Never started a day planning on something I may regret. 

It rarely is.

A little of giving oneself away, allowing something to be,

looking away from black or white, 
 choosing gray.

When I looked back I'm able to see particular times when, 

I started to fade.

I compromised my beliefs, morals or values. 

 

Compromises, the choices that took me away from what I believed.

Took me away from what was the right thing to do.

Just as the lyrics speak, a little compromise of ones self at a time....

In most every situation it was the willingness to sacrifice my needs

for my wants......

How many times I

allowed black and white to turn to gray....

all in order
for me to have what I wanted in the moment.

All the while telling myself the reasons "it" was okay.

 

I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other!  So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth.

Revelation 3:15-16

At some point, the choice was made.

I  was no longer willing to be lukewarm when it came

to my faith,  
or my knowledge of the rights and wrongs of my morals and values. 

I am not the friend, family member, employee that will tell