Thursday, April 16, 2015

Thankful Thursday ~ The Eyes Have it!

    Linking up with Rebecca Jo at


Been sick with a sinus infection/sore throat/earache/cold/cough since returning from San Luis Obispo :-(
It seems since November I'm sick at least two- three weeks and good for two....with my bad lungs everything is super sized. The lack of energy and hacking cough take it's toll to say the least. Keeping a thankful spirit, well, I have moments of not feeling so thankful but that's when I'm looking inward.  The focus on me rather than outward...with eyes, given as a gift to see all there is to be thankful for.

For me a spirit of gloom always appears when looking inward, "self" as my focus. It's when eyes open outward  that I am bombarded with that which fills me with a spirit of thankfulness. It really can't be helped, I become filled with thankfulness to overflowing. It's when the heart feels its best!

Sometimes it's a matter of really opening our eyes to who and what surrounds us.....changing the focus to that. It's in the midst of whats stealing our joy, that we can experience our fullest hearts.
"The world has enough beautiful mountains and meadows, spectacular skies and serene lakes. It has enough lush forests, flowered fields, and sandy beaches. It has plenty of stars and the promise of a new sunrise and sunset every day. What the world needs more of is people to appreciate and enjoy it." Michael Josephson

Thankful for thankful Thursday...It's been a useful teaching tool to realize if we stop and think about "what am I thankful for?" that we see just how much there is.

Proverbs 20:12 Ears that hear and eyes that see - the LORD has made them both.

The lesson for me, thankfulness is found in eyes that see.
Its what echos from my heart today.

Friday, April 10, 2015

Fresh on Friday Encoragement ~

 Been a busy week but not to busy to remind you all to be encouraged!

Never Give up!

Ecouraging others is what echos from my heart today.
Reach out and encourage at least one person today!
It may just be the person who needed to hear it  :-)

Thursday, April 2, 2015

Thankful Thursday ~ Core Four

Linking up with Rebecca Jo at

The Core Four (two sisters and two cousins) just finished our annual Core Four Cousins trip.  Sister Deanna and I picked up our cousins Dona Dee and Shelly at the Los Angeles airport. The excitement of being together was evident. We decided, first things first, we were in search of the perfect Margarita (tends to be a theme) so we headed to Hermosa Beach.


 This year was a train ride to San Luis Obispo for four days, so Saturday morning we were headed to Union Station where we boarded our train and headed North.

We lunched in the dining car with a great view of the beautiful Pacific.

At last we reached our destination!

Arrived at our beautiful hotel ~

We checked into our rooms, unpacked and searched for a special spot to chit chat,
and the photo taking did not stop for several days.

Looking upward..... this was my view.

We each choose a day to share a devotional with the others, it was a special time. The four of us, along with our siblings grew up together and we know the many blessing of those days past.
 They were not lost on us to be sure.
Our commonality is that each of our Mom's were sisters. In fact Shelly's Mom was my Mom's twin sister, and the only remaining of eleven Herndon children.


We walked every day, did some shopping, and ate some great food.....

And the search for the perfect Margarita continued.......

 For the record, this was just for grins, we did pour this into our own glasses.
(Which is not to say I wouldn't of done so)


Our last day and last toast with water :-) ....we were successful in our search.

Then is was all aboard as we returned South, tired and full of memories to carry us through until next year.


 Back where we started, beautiful Union Station

I am ever thankful that I was placed into the awesome extended family that I was. 
We are much more than cousins. 
We are friends, sisters, and confidants, who lift each other up when the need arises.
This Thankful Thursday I am especially thankful for each one.
We never part without knowing exactly what we mean to one another.


Full of thankfulness today.....

Be thankful, it's what echos from my heart today!

Sunday, March 22, 2015

For the Record ~ Love Anyway

Loving those who at times seem completely unlovable is difficult.  Yet my faith teaches that we are to love one another. I have stressed this before but I feel the need to repeat it. It does not state to only love those who are of same faith, it does not say to only love those who I am in complete agreement with on worldly issues.  It doesn't say only love those of a certain socioeconomic place in life... It doesn't say I don't have to love those who attack my faith. It doesn't say I don't have to love those that accuse me of being a way in which I'm not. No, it doesn't say only love those you wish, or those who are easy to love.  It says, to love one another.

To be clear on where this is coming from.... Last week I stated on Facebook that the fact the President not  calling to congratulate Mr. Netanyahu embarrassed me. I wrote it because it did. It was not stated by me that every other President has done the right thing every time either.

No matter how you read that text, no where does it state or imply that I was attempting to rip our President to shreds.  People made comments to my post,( not all things I agree with )and they too were attacked. Not only did it become a Party issue (which it clearly was not), but it opened the door to comments such as,

"Why do Christians vote to restrict help to the poor and elderly? Why do Christians not want everyone to have health insurance? Why do Christians vote to help the rich? That's saying one thing and doing another, call it what you want."

Bottom line it became a thread of attacking my faith as a Christian and then continued,

"When I say Christian, I mean the folks who want this country to be run by the church. You know this all gets back to gay and women's rights. You want the government out of your life except that you want your religious beliefs to be law. I'm sure whoever you vote for president will be someone against abortion and hates gays AND ready to go to war ASAP."

Finished me off with;

"Let me finish with...I am just doing fine without an imaginary friend."

 I did make it clear that though I don't agree with our President, I still pray for him daily to make wise decisions for our country.  It baffles me to think any one person agrees on every level with whomever our President, I mean seriously?
Not gonna lie, referring to Jesus Christ as my "imaginary friend" was heart breaking and personal to hear. 
To me He is very real. 

Heart breaking, because my faith that is so very personal to me, became hunting season on all Christians. Why do people group people all together rather than an individual personal knowledge of each other? Never would I assume all Muslims were terrorists, or all Germans hated the Jews, all Mormons drink in private, or all skinny women  never eat! That is ignorance.  
Had to throw in the skinny thing just to lighten my spirit...

No where in my original comment did I state my faith or my party affiliation. Yet both became the issue....
 For the record, a registered Democrat that did not vote for Obama and yes I am further right and in more agreement with the republican party because much of it lines up with my faith which is more important to me than any party affiliation. 

That said, I do not believe in abortion, I love the gay community as much as the straight community. Remember, that love one another thing?....that would include those who choose to have an abortion and gays. I don't have to agree with any ones choices in life to love them. Nor does anyone have to agree with me on all things. (hubby this doesn't apply to you ) smile~

The Christian community does much to help the poor and what makes you think Christians don't want affordable health insurance? Really? Truth told, even if I were not a Christian I would help the poor, and want affordable insurance.  Why does my being a Christian get brought up because I said the President embarrassed me. I mean seriously, I don't believe for one minute every Democrat is 100% happy with him. I worked phones on the Nixon campaign and I can say without a doubt he embarrassed me at times as well...
(he was a republican by the way.)

I think of myself of an American Citizen not a Republican or Democrat. I don't feel the need to divide the team into teams.  Fact is, if we all just called ourselves American citizens and there were not parties.....people would still not agree on all counts! What then, would we blame things on if someone had an opinion differing from our own??? Total agreement among folks just doesn't happen in the real world, and guess what? Its okay we don't all agree!

 I wouldn't dream of personally attacking anyone's faith, or ones beliefs, ever!
I would never generalize and put all Christians in to one group, all Germans in one group or one's political party into a generalized group in terms of issues. The party, the race, the gender, the nationality, the religious faith, cannot be generalized as all behaving and having opinions of a like manner on every thought or opinion.  We are first individuals, with minds of our own. Those individuals, are who I 'm to love, the individual.  Nothing else has to qualify them or disqualify them from me loving them.

My hope is that we as a people can agree upon just that, we are individuals and we don't all behave or believe the same way. Choose to love and consider people as individuals who all the want the same basic things, love and respect regardless of how we differ. 

I stated I was embarrassed by our President. That doesn't make me a liar, or a self righteous Christian who wants to attack abortion clinics, or hate anyone based on sexuality, race or cost of health insurance.  Nor does it make me judgmental toward anyone, based on anything

Please, if I post something you don't agree with, do not attack my faith or my family. You don't have to agree with anything I say or think.  I'm happy to be connected to people that matter to me and that is why I'm on Facebook. I love to see people from my past, family members and their families and what they are up to. To share in each others ups and downs should we desire to do so.

 I'm specifically proud to be reconnected with many of my high school alum.  It was a great time in my life in a beautiful city and they matter to me. It was never requirement that we all agree on every level in order to be "Facebook friends" didn't matter and it never will, to me. Unkind words or attacks toward other friends of mine will be deleted....

Not every thought we have, has to be said....

This and more has been on my heart all weekend, so forgive me for this long post. It's just high time, in my opinion, that we can at minimum be kind to each other as individuals in action and word. To those who differ from me, I love you as much as those that are in agreement with me, and we don't have to like each other!
I do wish Facebooker's would stop with the smarky comments to anyone, it's not a necessary thing in life, it's much to short to spend our energies doing so.

To any who were part of this string of posts....I do care about each of you as individuals, rather you care or not. 
Let's agree since it's so very personal to each, to not attack individual faiths, lets leave that to ISIS.

This and much more echos from my heart today......

Thursday, March 19, 2015

Thankful Thursday ~

Linking up with Rebecca Jo and
Today is just another day of being thankful, only purposing to put it in print...

Thankful for ~

~ The amazing women I have come to know through our blogs! Hard to describe the bond, smile...

~ For 19 Kids and Counting.  I confess. the way they live their lives is refreshing!

~ The angels on earth also known as Hospice. I've seen them in action many times in my life. I currently am
    aware of three women that are in the stage of angels.....My heart breaks, yet thankful for those called to 
    be at their sides. They make a difference.

~ Family...always.


Take a moment and note what you are thankful for.
It's what echos from my heat today.....

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Thanful Thursday~

Teaming up with Rebecca Jo at Knit by God's Hand 

 ~ I'm very thankful my Hubstir is feeling better after being the sickest I've seen him.

~ I'm thankful to have both Ellery and Khloe back a couple days a week, still unable to lift with my left arm 
   but they are an important part in my healing! 

~ Thankful for our beautiful warm weather, 80's at the beach this coming weekend. Still praying for more
     rain that we so desperately need.....
  ~ For bulbs that are blooming in my yard.  Love the fact they just hide out for the winter only to remind
      us they never really left us!
~Thankful for guests to our home. This week my eldest sister, brother in law and Cookie their dog came for 
   night in order to adopt another dog.  A friend of mine mentioned on Facebook she had a dog in need 
   of a family as his elder owners could no longer care for him. Deanna, Mickey and Cookie met up with the
   possible new member of the family.  Happy to say Cookie now has a companion, Arnold!

~ Thankful for my cousin Linda and her husband Pat who are coming down Saturday and staying until 
    Sunday. Never have enough time with the two of them, just so excited to see them!

The practice of being thankful is so important.
When things seem at their worst, there is still much to be thankful for.
It may take some quiet moments to see them, but they are there.
You will find you can increase your own happiness just by practicing
thankfulness ~


“Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.” — William Arthur Ward

Hoping you will  look for things to be thankful for on Thankful Thursday and every other day!
It's what echos from my heart today.

Monday, March 9, 2015

What is a Kind Husband?

I read this recent post on the Desiring God Blog.  My first thought was what would most husbands honestly have to say after reading this?  "Honestly have to say?"
I thought it a great truth when I read it, never really looked at it from this perspective.  The problem with great truths, if one reads it and knows it as truth but does nothing with this truth.....well, it's the same is those who claim to be Christians on Sundays but not the other 6 days of the week. To live the truth in front of others, but not out of ear shot or sight of them. By not living the life you speak of....well as you will read it puts a bad light on ones view of Christ!

Obviously this isn't to say this occurs just with husbands, this article is just husband specific....wives, we are to live in a specific way toward our husbands as well.  The article just happens to address what a kind husband looks like.....Of course I hope husbands will read this, and yes, live it's truths. Wives, don't get on a soap box over this :-) A good reminder that when we point a finger at someone, there are three pointing back at ourselves.

I think this article is important enough to share and I hope you will share it yourself!

What Is a Kind Husband?

Five Characteristics of True Kindness

What Is a Kind Husband?
We find many husbands in the Bible, but not many stand out as ideal.
One of the men who does stand out is Boaz. Throughout the book of Ruth, he stands out as a model of what a husband as a husband should be. He is a godly and considerate employer (Ruth 2:4). His kindness toward Ruth is clear and well-marked before he thinks of himself as a possible husband to her. His character as a godly husband comes out in his kindness in assuming the role of kinsman-redeemer for Ruth. So the next time you read through the book of Ruth, think of the kindness of this husband.
What do unkind husbands do? Among other things, they preach heresy in the living room. Paul tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). This is not given as simply a nice illustration. A husband is the head of his wife the same way Christ is the head of the Church (Ephesians 5:23). This means that husbands are speaking all day every day about what Christ thinks of the Church. And because such speaking is inescapable, they are either telling the truth or they are lying. No husband has the option of silence.

The Lies of Mistreatment

And unfortunately, while all mistreatment is a lie, more than one lie is possible. For example, what lie is being told by bitter husbands? Paul tells husbands not to be bitter against their wives (Colossians 3:19). But some men think that they have been provoked enough that resentment is their only option. What is the lie? The lie is that Christ has a lousy attitude whenever he is provoked, which we would think must be all the time.
Another lie is told by a lustful husband. Some men think that a straying eye is only natural. What is the lie? The lie is that Christ is an adulterer, that he is unfaithful to his bride.
Then there is the lie told by limp husbands. Some men provide no leadership for their wives. What is the lie? The lie is that Christ is a loser and a wimp. That this is fairly common in our day is not surprising, given the doctrine of Christ that is held by many.
Last, proud husbands tell another lie. Some men have contempt for the abilities of women, including their wives and daughters. What is the lie? They are saying that Christ despises his Church, making fun of it whenever he gets the chance.

Five Characteristics of a Kind Husband

So what is a kind husband? As we see the ideal of a husband’s kindness displayed by Boaz, we also should fill out our understanding of that kindness from the teaching of the Bible elsewhere. We are perhaps too accustomed to the phraseology of the Pauline command to love our wives, and so it might help us to think of this central duty in terms of kindness.
First, a kind husband is incomplete. God created man in his image, male and female created he them (Genesis 1:27). A man and his wife become one flesh (Genesis 2:24), which indicates the intimacy of sexual union (2 Corinthians 6:16). Apart from the intervention of God with the gift of celibacy, it is not good that man should be alone (Genesis 2:18). True male confidence therefore operates within the context of mutual kindnesses. “Confidence” that in any way hints, indicates, or says to a wife that “I don't need you” is not real confidence at all, but mere arrogant bluster. Men who build themselves up by tearing down their wives are following the “wisdom” of hell. A husband is kind to the one who completes him.
Second, a kind husband is a lover. The ideal here is the lover portrayed in the Song of Songs. He is ardent, devoted, strong, and sexually confident. But remember the first point; this confidence is not in himself, but rather in his ability to fulfill his appointed role, which is only half of what must be done. Too often we forget what the Bible commands (Proverbs 5:15–19). A husband is kind to his beloved.
A kind husband is a provider. A man who does not provide for his household is worse than an unbeliever (1 Timothy 5:8). Since his wife is the most important member of his household, he has a profound obligation to provide for her. Specifically, he provides her with food, clothing, and conjugal rights (Exodus 21:10). A husband is kind to the one who is dependent upon him.
Fourth, a kind husband is a nurturer. A Christian husband is called to nourish and cherish (Ephesians 5:29). In this sense, a lack of tenderness, where appropriate, shows a lack of masculinity. A husband is kind to the object of his kindness.
And last, a husband is a kinsman-redeemer. A husband is close to his wife; she is his sister, his bride (Song 5:1). In a very real sense, he models for her the idea of savior and redeemer (Ephesians 5:25–26). What husband is sufficient for such things? Not one, but we live and love by grace. A husband is kind to his sister, the one he brings to himself.

Believer or not, imagine marriages with husbands such as this?
Now to find the article on wives :-) I'm in search mode!

It's what echos from my heart today....

It's what echos from my heart today................................